tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-73064202024-03-13T20:40:08.817+08:00colorbarfriendsI named it colorbarfriends because I always have a dream to run a bar for friends and the bar will be called Color Bar. While the Bar not yet ready, let’s meet at the cyber color bar! Cheers!joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.comBlogger355125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-20471728959407406432021-01-01T20:59:00.004+08:002021-01-01T21:07:08.418+08:00跨年感恩:感恩天地、感恩父母、感恩師長,和感恩朋友<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">為響應老同學在群組發起的年終感恩分享活動,</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">29-31</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">日,一連三天,和面書朋友分享我的三個感恩:感恩天地,感恩父母,感恩師長。<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">12</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">月</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">29</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">日,年終三感恩之一:感恩天地<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span face="新細明體, serif">落地喊三聲,好醜名生成,從小便常聽見,在過去幾十年,有些日子很相信,有些日子半信半疑,有些日子更信人定勝天。至近年思想偏近瑜伽哲學,深信因果法則,既有定律的依歸,也可因人的意念而修定。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">因此,首先要感恩天地,由出生時辰計起,到當下一刻,給我的每一個安排。當中有如意的,有不如意的,但從讀書、就業、愛情、婚姻,到步入中老年退而不休的生活,每一個轉變,每一個抉擇,想信都是天地給了我最好的安排,感恩。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">12</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">月</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">30</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">日,年終三感恩之二:感恩父母<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> </span><span face="新細明體, serif" style="color: #050505;">我和媽媽是在農曆同一天生日,她生肖屬鼠,今年是她的本命年,還在的話,八十五了。爸爸屬雞,比她大三歲。爸爸媽媽都是從小便沒有父親在身邊,和媽媽特別親近。小時候,我們每個周未的節目,就是去探望外婆和阿嫲。</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">爸媽從沒有要求我們讀書要考甚麼名次,但不能不合格。我在幼稚園高班上學期,考過一次全班第三,爸爸下班回來,帶我到書局買了一個筆盒。到了小學二年級和三年級,我成績表英默不及格,要見家長,媽媽兩次去見老師前,都打了我一頓。這也是我念到大學畢業,唯一一次考獲名次,和唯此兩次成績表有紅字。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">從選擇中學到出來社會工作,爸媽都沒有左右過我的選擇。記得中三那年,覺得上學很沒趣,想轉讀夜校,白天出來工作,他們找了幾位工作得不錯的相熟哥哥姐姐,給我了解他們的工作。不過,後來還是把中學完成。後來考進中大,實是多得媽媽慧眼,覺到我畫畫有點兒天份,讓我去畫室學畫畫。後來就是憑著一點素描根底,進了藝術系。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">爸媽中年一起經營家庭式小影樓,我們小學和中學生活,都是靠這影樓的收入。因為爸媽對出品很有要求,對客人有禮殷實,且取價相宜,所以經營得不錯。我們的童年,說不上富裕,但從沒有甚麼困乏。偶爾親友急需週轉,爸媽也樂於解困。這些他們都從沒跟我們說,但我們在無廳無房的廉租屋長大的一代,一家人一向就沒有甚麼秘密。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">進大學後,爸爸便退休。他有次投資失誤,我從本來無憂無慮的大學生活,變成要自理學費和生活。在大二那年,曾經一個月做五份兼職。那年,也是我書法寫個最好的一年,因為中西畫的準備和清理,費時甚多,寫書法就省時得多。爸爸從那時起,用餘下積蓄回中山老家建屋務農,沒想到,從此我們一家,在老家有了一座小別墅和大花園,有魚塘,有小溪。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">三年多前,媽媽的骨灰撤在老家花園中央的一棵大樹周圍,爸爸說,將來他百年歸老後,他的骨灰撤在媽媽的骨灰之上便是了。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">感恩爸爸媽媽,給我們開明自由的環境長大,言教身教,讓我們都在社會上,奉公守法,有餘力時,便給有需要的朋友盡一點力。感恩。</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><br /></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">12</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">月</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">31</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">日,年終三感恩之三:感恩師長</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">對成長過程影響最大,除了父母,莫過於師長。從幼稚園、小學、中學、大學,以至年過不惑重返校園,很慶幸,在每一所學校,都能遇上很好的老師,給我的啟迪,終身受益。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">四歲入讀華康幼稚園,當時,家住華富邨華康樓,上學的路程,就是出門乘電梯下樓這麼容易。我念低班時,我姊念高班,我好喜歡她的班主任,感覺很親切,媽媽也常常稱讚她是個好老師。我就想高班也是她做我的班主任就好了,後來,真的是進了她教那班,她是幼稚園的主任,我們都稱她陳主任。陳主任上課挺嚴肅的,我對她由喜歡親近變得有點敬怕。但在幼稚之年,便遇上一位教學認真的啟蒙老師,實是與生俱來的福氣。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">小學念華富邨寶血小學,一年級班主任劉袖群老師,是位外省人。那時候,無論男女老師,我們都叫先生,劉先生也教我們國語課,即中文課。記得第一次默書,默第一課,「山,高山,高高的山。」老師說念默,幼稚園時老師都是說背默,我從來沒聽過念默,以為老師叫我們亂默,就把「山,高山,高高的山」的次序亂默一通,結果,吃了人生第一個零雞包。劉老師的中文根底很好,也教我們尺牘,我相信我自小中文比較好,是幸得一年級時,就有一位很好的中文老師。這幾年中,印象最深的,還有陳秋霞老師、陳小樺老師和陳景漢老師,他們分別教過我中英數和當過我的班主任,都是十分關懷學生學業和操行的好老師。早兩年華富學邨寶血小學五十周年,學校慶祝活動,見到陳秋霞老師和陳景漢老師,十分壯健,談笑風生。雖然我不是那些特出優秀的學生,幾十年後,他們還依稀記得我,真的不容易。還要感謝的,就是我們下午校校長何美言修女,六年小學,一直很害怕何修女,那時覺得她的職責就是罵學生。直至畢業前,我們一班同學分成幾組,在禮堂圍成幾個大圓圈坐,她就逐組給我們勉勵,問我們將來打算做甚麼工作,我當時也沒有甚麼理想職業這種想法,就隨便說想當警察,她倒很認真回應了我。沒想到,後來我真的當了十多年紀律部隊。何修女已息勞歸主,感恩她為寶血小學同學們所付出的心力。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">在小學時期,還要特別感謝吳永波老師。他開辦的補習班,可說是今天補習學校的先河。小五小六兩年,因得他輔助全科功課測驗考試,我的成績由中下變成中上。只是升中試一時失手,做不完試卷,他建議我不要把志願都填中西區的頂尖學校,又介紹了位於赤柱的聖士提反書院給我。如是者,我便進了一間給了我很好美好回憶的中學。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">因為有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">Facebook</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">的原故,我們一代「聖記」人,在這十多年間,越聚越多人,老師和同學,都常在網上互相問候,互道近況。在聖士提反書院老師當中,我最懷念的是嚴以誠老師。他畢業於新亞書院,國學根底非常好,寫在黑板上的一手行草,雖有時要猜猜是甚麼字,但那股澟然之氣真的直透黑板。我會考中文取得</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">A</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">級成績,除了嚴老師,還要感謝中四中五教我中文的班主任唐秀玲老師,她的教學相對新式,大部份同學跟從她的方法,都能輕鬆自如應付公開試。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">聖士提反書院有寄宿生和走讀生,一般寄宿生都來自較好條件的家庭,但我從沒有覺得有那位老師因學生家境不同而對待有異。如今畢業三十多年,當年的老師,如今在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">Fackbook</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">和</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">Whatsapp</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">上常有往還的有</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">Mrs. Priscilla Lo, Mrs. Rosita Louie, Mrs Cheung, Mr.
Peter Mok </span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">和</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"> Erastus Yu</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">幾位老師,皆風采依然,愛護學生如昔。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">預科在原校讀了兩個月</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">A Level</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,實在沒法跟上,停學了。後來教了半年幼稚園,還是學得讀書好。當時有位朋友在台灣師範大學念美術系,我覺得很合我,便在珠海書院報讀了中六,希望容易一點往台灣升讀。那年中六,又有幸遇上一位很好的國文老師麥老師。老師教歐陽修那篇瀧崗阡表,說全篇精神就在「非敢緩也,蓋有待也」的「待」字,當年試卷,剛好就出了瀧崗阡表這一題,這個待字幫我在高考中文再次拿個</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">A</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">,這個</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">A</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">不但幫了我進香港中文大學,也幫了我日後處世做人的信念。遺憾是,畢業後一直沒有親自多謝麥老師。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">大學四年,主修藝術系,系中各位老師,位位皆負盛名,系主任張義老師剛在去年過身,術科老師有劉國松老師、李潤桓老師和呂振光老師,史科老師有高美慶老師。這幾位老師都給了我在藝術學習方向上很好的指引,雖然,畢業至今三十多年,沒有好好作過一畫一字,但日常對藝術和美感的判斷力,實在是扎根於大學四年,師從這幾位難得的好老師。此外,副修哲學,有幸在大二跟從陳特老師上西方哲學史,大三跟從劉述先老師上宋明儒學,兩位老師對我在哲學基礎上的影響,實比我當時所覺得的深遠很多。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">大學只拿到乙等二級畢業,當時要乙等一級才能夠報讀研究生。但人生,總有很多意想不到的發展。在年過不惑,竟可重回校園讀書,在香港浸會大學完成碩士和博士學位,在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">2005</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">至</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">2007</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">年,修讀當代中國研究,接觸到歷史系的周佳榮老師、李金強老師、林啟彥老師、何劉詠聰老師、鍾寶賢老師和黃文江老師,社會學系的阮丹青老師和賴蘊寬老師、經濟系的陳慶年老師等等,每位老師皆把我帶進豁然開朗的學問大道。當中,當然是最要多謝黃文江老師,在我三年多的博士學習生涯的扶持和勉勵,讓我這個在屋邨幼稚園出身的中年婦人,可以順利戴上博士四方帽。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; mso-pagination: widow-orphan;"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="color: #050505; mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">寫了這麼多,就只為感恩。感恩學習上遇上的每位老師。感恩。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: #050505; font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Segoe UI Historic"; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">年終三感恩,寫完好開心。新的一年,還是從感恩開始。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">今回是:感恩朋友。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">小時候很愛看粵語長片,尤其愛看武俠片,于素秋抱拳說「各路英雄,後會有期」那種俠骨柔情,深印在幼年的我心上。年稍長,愛看武俠小說,最能代入的角色,就是金庸先生筆下,為國為民,俠之大者的郭靖。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">長大懂事後,交朋結友,真的是各路英雄都有,但為國為民的心願,就因生性優悠,縱有天馬行空之想,甚少付諸實行。雖然如此,江湖救急,又或路見不平,在能力許可和安全情況下,略盡綿力,倒是經歷不少。因此,得了不少友誼,同時也失去不少朋友。以前,總覺錢財身外物,但多番因自己執著所謂對錯,好好一份友情,付諸流水,那種難受,真的一時三刻咽不下去。尤其過去兩年,有時忽然想起一些在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">Facebook</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">上久未見面的朋友,原來已給對方</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">unfriend</span><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">了,忐忑難免。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span face=""新細明體",serif" style="mso-bidi-font-family: 新細明體; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;">幸而,去年初在印度靜修兩個多月,密集式學習《瑜伽經》,後又在過了個多月居易行簡的生活,忽然有日想通了,應以感恩為盾,祝福為矛,處理一切人事往還。自此,每天起床第一件事,就是感恩和祝福。漸漸,心中忐忑漸散。雖與聖人修為仍是相距千里,但經過不斷練習,各路朋友,一視同仁,一一祝福。江湖上,都是朋友,沒有敵人。武俠小說中的英雄人物,從來就是多災多難,唯沒有英雄,才沒有敵人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "inherit",serif; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-font-kerning: 0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></p>
<p><span face="新細明體, serif">在新一年的第一天,特別感恩仍把我留在朋友圈的你。正能量一加一,永遠大於二。只願往後日子,都因有彼此祝福,越來越美好。感恩。</span> </p>joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-46400047350581987762018-03-29T12:50:00.005+08:002018-03-29T13:25:47.976+08:00<span style="font-family: 新細明體;">
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span lang="EN-US">2014</span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">年初,因為一位資深瑜伽導師朋友跟我說:“你想認真瞭解瑜伽,便參加</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span lang="EN-US">Sivananda</span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span lang="EN-US">TTC</span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">吧!完成回來後,你的家人和朋友會從你的笑容中看出分別來。”我便去了位於南印度的</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span lang="EN-US"><a href="http://sivananda.org.in/madurai/" target="_blank">Sivananda Yoga Vedanta Meenakshi Ashram</a></span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,完成了為期</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span lang="EN-US">28</span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">天的</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span lang="EN-US">200</span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">小時瑜伽導師課程,跟著還多留</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span lang="EN-US">20</span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">天繼續學習,瑜伽靜修院的人和事,就是那樣朴質自然而有愛。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span lang="EN-US">50</span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">天難忘的經歷,果然,不但從鏡子看到自己笑容的轉變,也讓我和身邊的親人朋友相處,更見溫馨融洽。隨之便在網上查看可以在甚麼地方協助推廣師門,因而聯絡上當時邀請</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span lang="EN-US"><a href="http://www.sivanandapeetham.org/teachers.php" target="_blank">Swami Govindananda</a></span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">來中國教學的主辦方,同年</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span lang="EN-US">9</span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">月我便去了法眼寺,第一次和這位氣度不凡的老師相見。巧恰的是,我在印度學習的那間瑜伽靜修院,正是</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span lang="EN-US">Swami Govindananda</span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">在</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span lang="EN-US">1993</span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">年協助建立,並在那裡服務至</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span lang="EN-US">2010</span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">年離開機構,另創辦</span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><a href="http://www.sivanandapeetham.org/index.html" target="_blank">Sivananda Yoga Vidya Peetham</a>.</span></span><br />
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Govindananda</span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,至今重逢五遍,四次在國內,一次在印度他辦的瑜伽靜修院。相處或短短數天,或長至近月。在瑜伽師徒共處的傳統,數天的相處,便可以從很多小節中領悟到老師口傳身授的種種。課程雖然密集,但老師總愛忙裡偷閒,在大家常聚的地方,和大家聊聊天,解答大家生活和學習上的各種疑惑。這是我最覺受益的學習時光,老師的睿智,每每是在無拘無束的機緣下,直透心源。</span></span></span></span></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體;"><br /></span></span></span></span></div>
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Govindananda</span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的認識,都是很被動的。但幾年過來,老師偶然談起往事,我總聽得津津有味,尤其他回憶怎樣在一無所有的條件下,慢慢建成一個瑜伽靜修林,殊不僥倖。此外,從其他和老師交往多年的朋友口中,也點點滴滴把老師</span><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span lang="EN-US">30</span></span><span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">年來的瑜伽教學之道,有了個大概的認識。過中故事,很能體現一個瑜伽士虔敬侍神,無懼無畏的精神。</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "新細明體" , serif; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">老師每次來中國,都希望在場地費用上,為學生省一點,所以他自己的住宿條件也常和大家相若。記得我們有次說:“老師,辛苦了!”,他便打趣說:“是啊,所以你們要對我好一點。”我在印度跟他辭別的那天,問可否把用剩的少許錢留給靜修院,老師說:“錢,總是有用的。”我說:“這次就只一點點,我希望下次會多一點。”老師說:“帶多些學生來就是了。”老師總是在輕描淡寫中把重點道出。去年畢業禮那天,我把愛人帶去觀禮,當時我把這兩段話和大家分享,忽然,有點哽咽的感覺,我一向少有如此。</span></span></span></span><br />
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joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-66259747919186880412016-07-21T22:51:00.003+08:002016-07-21T23:51:35.269+08:00<div>
三間餐廳三個男人三個故事(一)<br />
在麗江和香格里拉逗留了共12天,除了和梵天舆老師班上認識到的大伙兒,日夕共對,成了好朋友外,在兩處古鎮吃飯,喝咖啡,聽歌,隨便坐坐,隨便聊天,也會遇上有情的人,把半生的故事和你分享。在漫活的地方,就是這樣容易偶然遇上,帶著動人故事的人生。<br />
那一夜,我們初到香格里拉,梵老師帶我們去了一間很不顯眼的餐廳,他在門前說,餐廳是有點簡陋,但東西很好吃,問我們要不要試。我們都沒有異議。我們去得早,餐廳沒有其他人,老闆是個三十來歲的男子,身型長相都是平凡得一下便會忘記的那種。全店就只有他和他母親兩人包辦下單,厨房,上菜……結果,一頓飯要用了兩個多小時,但真的很好吃,且價錢不貴。<br />
飯後,老闆還送香格里拉啤酒和自家釀的青稞酒給大家品嘗。天南地北,他忽然指著自己臉上由額到唇邊的一道疤說,幾年前,他本在大理賣旅遊商品,都是那些說是假一賠十的玩意。有次他迷迷糊糊了一個重交,他信這是報應。從此換了賺錢之道,輾轉來到這裡,開了這小店,弄好每一個菜,招呼好每一個客人。<br />
這店很近我們住的地方,每次出入經過,都看到他和他媽媽在幹活,很平凡,但聽過他的故事,每個平凡的動作,都帶着令人感到不一樣的印象。</div>
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在麗江,有一個下午,想找一個靜靜的咖啡店,好好回覆累積了數天的電郵。信步走進一條小巷,經過一間招牌門面都相當醒目的咖啡店,剛好看到中年店主送一位外籍客人出門。見他倆言談似平十分熟絡,直覺有老外老主顧,咖啡質量應不差,便進了去。<br />
店主用普通話招呼我,我問他是不是台灣人,又是直覺他不像國內的。他說他是香港來的,噢,他鄉遇故知,我們便一起轉了粤語頻道。<br />
我說,一進店就感覺到那種閒適和逍遥,真羡慕他可以在這裡開一間這樣好的店。他笑說是幫朋友打理的。他問我要喝甚麼,要咖啡的話,要等一會,冲咖啡的人很快回。然後,又不好意思說要失陪一會,那邊的客人正等他,他放下名片,說一會兒再過來和我聊天。說也奇怪,他的彬彬有禮與他一面江湖中人長相倒有點不對應。<br />
沒多久,一位圓潤好看的少婦過來問我想喝甚麼,我要了杯拿鐵,她問我有沒有想要濃一些還是淡一些,我說適中可以了。在國內倒是頭一回給這麼一問。<br />
咖啡還是這位女士端來。我問她也是香港來的嗎?她用廣東話告訴我他先生是,她是湖北人。聊了一會,她說句慢用,我也不礙她正事了。呷一口,果然還是好咖啡。<br />
未幾,店主過來了,結果,大家一談便是一個下午。這位先生果然是個有故事的人,從十二三歲童黨歲月到十六歲在地盤拜師學藝,廿歲出頭做判頭,九七前移民加國,在東西兩岸各住了數年,然後回流,離離合合,起起落落,每段人生都是故事。早兩年和現任妻子來麗江幫朋友打理這咖啡店和有八間房的客棧,也偶爾應朋友要求,帶隊到遠近景區遊覧。他說很多事都親力親為,沒有請長工,只有鐘點和義工,省卻很多人事。<br />
我讚他們的咖啡好,我想原因很簡單,他應該也是個對咖啡有要求的人,果然。<br />
談了兩個多小時,近晚課時分,便埋單告辭,他給我打了折,握手互留英文名字,然後親送到店門外。<br />
這一個下午,一個電郵都沒有覆,擱了正事,卻聽了很多精彩故事。<br />
悠閒的地方,本就是給悠閒的生活。</div>
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初到麗江,有天午飯後散步,經過一間餐廳在播不再讓你孤單,雖不是陳昇原唱,但也不失滄桑的味道。本想在店前把歌聽畢便走,完了卻又轉出另一首說不出名字民歌,很好聽,如是者,就站了好幾首歌的時間。店前放著歌手的CD,看了,但沒有買。<br />
離開麗江的那個中午,沒有別事,便再回到那餐廳。店員竟認得我,我問甚麼時候有現場演唱,他說他們十二時多便回來。那時已近正午,我便進店裡坐,要了一杯滇紅,48元,買了那一套三張的CD,100元,一張是個人創作原唱,兩張唱別人的歌。這麼多天來,第一次一次過花麼多的。<br />
我問店員唱現場的是否CD上的同一歌手,他說是。我便邊看書邊看微信邊聽歌,很快等到歌手到場了。他一進店,有位女顧客便說,老闆,你有粉絲等你呀!原來是個唱歌的老闆。<br />
這位老闆歌手挺親和的,過來打招呼,說不好意思,他感冒了,今天唱不了,由他的伙伴唱。他在旁邊打鼓。<br />
真不欺場呢,一首連一首,唱足近句鐘。中場休息,他走過來聊天。我一開腔說了兩句,他便問我是不是廣東過來的,我說你一下就聽出來了,是香港來的,內心真的盼望有天能把這廣東腔去掉。他說他之前在深圳逗了很久,所以很易聽出來了。然後,談到在深圳做歌手的種種壓力,我說在這裡好,經營成本低,沒那麼大壓力,可以有創作的時間了。他說,就是太閒適,也會失去創作的動力。然後,大家又拉拉雜雜談音樂談生活。然後,歇場時間完了,他們又回到台上。我聽了幾首,把茶喝完,便和他們揮手道別,回酒店拿行李到機場。他示意我忘了帶CD,我說帶了,那是空盒子。<br />
搞藝術的,太太壓力創作不了,沒有壓力也創作不了。是的,這也是我畢業這麼多年來一幅畫也沒有畫過的很好藉口。<br />
廿多歲的時候,去過一趟大理,把那次拍的照片輯在一本子上,上面寫了西南夢三個字。西南,是有夢的地方。這趟西南之旅,仍有同樣的感覺,只是,夢,是不一樣了。</div>
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<br />joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-27857314215951015972014-03-10T10:54:00.000+08:002014-03-10T10:54:15.795+08:00五十天印度瑜伽之旅 - 從一種真實到另一種真實<span style="font-family: 新細明體;">
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<span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-language: ZH-HK;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Sivananda</span></span><span lang="ZH-HK" style="font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-HK; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的瑜伽教學系統著重適當的運動、呼吸、休息、飲食和靜坐與正向思想。沒想到年近半百,始從新學到生活中簡單而美好的基本道理。二十八天的課程轉眼便過,本來只是為學瑜伽教學而來,結果,得著的,遠超預期。</span></div>
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</span>joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-70514100170552096662013-09-24T15:48:00.000+08:002020-04-14T21:08:33.476+08:00又一次遭unfriend了<div style="background-color: white; border: 0px; color: #888888; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">
一篇未發的文章,時隔數載,今天重讀一遍,不無感慨。<br />
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自2007年八月開了面書以來,不經不覺,已有近八百個書友,主動和被動參半,主動邀請的,大多是相方認識的,也有是朋友的朋友,但都是我喜歡的人。至於收到的邀請,便要清楚知道對方是誰,才會接受,即使不直接認識,起碼,也要有共同朋友。所以即使已有近八百人,我的面書只有臥龍藏龍,不會龍蛇混雜。因為不想成了朋友後又unfriend別人。被unfriend的感覺,確是挺難受的。<br />
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沒有研究過怎樣可以找到給誰unfriend了,但這幾年間,有兩次因為想起看看親友近況,卻發覺給unfriend了,當然,都是事出有因的,只是沒想過情況會那樣壞。人家unfriend你,仿佛就是告訴你,不要再煩我。句號。<br />
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不過,為了承擔負任,讓事情有個段落,我還是給對方的面書發了個訊息:「我原以為彼此性情可以無所不談。不過,如果我的話給了你傷害,我必須道歉,對不起。」句號。joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-40704044944326121722013-04-09T19:10:00.000+08:002013-04-10T13:47:01.082+08:00十年人事幾番新<div style="text-align: left;">
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十年後的紀念日,看到她們在面書上的留言,我也湊湊熱鬧,把一幀過檢閱台行注目禮的照片上載面書,題上「十年人事幾番新」。</div>
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二日間,收到百多個讚好和廿多個回應,一時興起,便多加了幾段話:<br />
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W/Officer</span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,她們便和</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Rank
and File</span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">一起操。怎料,帶隊的女教官嫌她操得不好,要把她放到中排。她想,堂堂一個</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Officer</span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,怎能在操場上站在</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Rank
and File</span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">後面,結果,便退出了,沒有操</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">
passing out</span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">passing
out parade </span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">當日,看到同期在操場上闊步昂首,她偷偷地哭了,自此,懼怕步操的童年陰影揮之不去。</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-language: ZH-HK;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span><br />
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Recruit W/Officer</span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">算了,但她尊</span></span><span id=".reactRoot[23].[1][2][1]{comment10151364765827479_8610923}.0.[1].0.[1].0.[0].[0][2].0.[3]"><span style="font-family: Calibri;"><span id=".reactRoot[23].[1][2][1]{comment10151364765827479_8610923}.0.[1].0.[1].0.[0].[0][2].0.[3].0"><span id=".reactRoot[23].[1][2][1]{comment10151364765827479_8610923}.0.[1].0.[1].0.[0].[0][2].0.[3].0.[0]">敬的上司告訴她,自己帶著自己的學員操</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN;">
passing out</span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,有一種不能替代的</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">
spirit</span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,她便只好頂硬上。結果,</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">2003</span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">年的兒童節那天,一個充滿傳奇的童話誕生了,一個自己沒有操過</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">
passing out </span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">
Officer</span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">,卻在自己學生的</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">passing
out parade </span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">擔起</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">
contingent commander</span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的角色,和她們一同享受操場上那份難得的驕傲。</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-language: ZH-HK;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span></div>
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</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #351c75;"><span id=".reactRoot[23].[1][2][1]{comment10151364765827479_8611468}.0.[1].0.[1].0.[0].[0][2].0.[2]"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">比起很多成功人物的故事,這不過是件微不足道的小事,講左咁多,其實我有三樣野想講,第一,正如</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">
Kitty Ma </span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">在上面所說,</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">
“u never know your maximum till u try.” </span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">人生有時會倒霉到</span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span lang="EN" style="color: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">try</span></span></span><span class="uficommentbody"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: "新細明體","serif"; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;">的機會也輪不到,所以,有機會一定要試;第二,是對當年因隊型所限,沒有在隊裡的小友們說的,我完全感受到你們成全整隊人的胸懷,你們之後的努力,我也知道絕對沒有白費;第三,操場如戰場,在那裡共同進退過的隊友,終其一生,都凝聚著一種互助互信互愛的情誼,這應是每個曾在紀律部隊裡流過淚和汗的隊員,足以自豪和驕傲的。」</span></span></span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span class="UFICommentBody" style="color: #351c75;">這個小故事背後是一個勵志的大故事,生而知之者,學而知之者,困而知知者,皆是知也!故事主角以勤補拙,透過不斷學習重覆,跨過堪道奔向驕陽。大有天行健,君子以自強不息的精神....勇於接受挑戰!</span></span><br />
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}" id=".reactRoot[34].[1][2][1]{comment10151364765827479_8611833}.0.[1].0.[1].0.[0].[0][2]"><span class="UFICommentBody" id=".reactRoot[34].[1][2][1]{comment10151364765827479_8611833}.0.[1].0.[1].0.[0].[0][2].0"><span id=".reactRoot[34].[1][2][1]{comment10151364765827479_8611833}.0.[1].0.[1].0.[0].[0][2].0.[0]">老友Kitty姐隨著也回應:</span></span></span></div>
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span class="UFICommentBody" style="color: #351c75;">小故事,足斤兩。Eric Hobsbawm 說過每一個史學家在他的人生裡都會找一個「私家的落腳點」( a private perch), 從那裡審視世界,你找到了吧。</span></span><br />
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<span data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span class="UFICommentBody"><span><span style="color: #351c75;">感人,堅毅,勵志故事,集眾志成城,隊伍成就了她,她亦獻出自己努力圓滿了隊伍,正是自己嘅兵自己帶,戰場上前面千軍萬馬,刀山火海,吾往矣,乃部隊精神,更是一個帶兵官應有之責任......</span></span></span></span></div>
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joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-47468149236734837272012-12-26T22:22:00.001+08:002012-12-26T22:22:12.235+08:002012最後幾天的幾個願望最最最想,當然仍然是中六合彩!<br />
這些日子,越來越多親友手頭拮据,如果有多點意外之財,便可以幫忙得瀟灑一點。<br />
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還有就是:<br />
應承了別人做的事,能全部盡快做好。<br />
然再要應承幫忙的,都是不用急趕的事。<br />
然後,去上一兩個瑜伽導師課程,待我踏入五十歲時,正式當一個瑜伽老師。<br />
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再能來多一點奢望,那就是:<br />
讓那些從來不覆電郵、不理啋我們的朋友們,都願意附出一點點,讓我們上上下下左左右右前前後後,都有美麗的相向交流!<br />
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我的2012,很好,很滿足。<br />
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熱切期待:更好更豐盛的2013!joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-38360178457833276602012-12-14T22:46:00.003+08:002012-12-26T22:26:19.187+08:00小小盤點<div class="_38 direction_ltr">
又到年尾盤點的時間,全年至今,只添了三篇,郤開了兩個沒有文章的新網誌,《一個是久留樓女樓主隨筆》,另一個是《五十述懷(初稿) 》,都是當時興之所至,雖至今仍有興頭,就是少了激發點。<br />
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從去年十月順利完成論文答辯、今年一月修正後呈交研究院、六月接信通知論文已在校務委員會通過,到十一月行畢業禮,每次都希望正正式式寫篇文章感懷記述,結果,還是一拖再拖,倒是每次把消息上載Facebook,都得到很多親友說讚和回應。<br />
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取得博士學位,故然是人生要事,年中還有不少感人感性之事,過了,就少了那份現場感,補寫,只有矯情之嫌。<br />
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不過,不單是我,環顧過往一向有寫網誌的朋友,很多都在近一兩年完全停產了,真是可惜。<br />
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希望在未來日子,大家常常有閒情和閒心,久不久寫寫網誌,留點有可讀性的文章在網上流傳。</div>
joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-1020723869962436742012-07-10T01:47:00.002+08:002012-07-10T01:52:54.764+08:00在面書上的葡萄成熟時前年底,在網上訂購了兩株天香木瓜、幾株無花果和一株杞子的幼苗,貨到時發現賣家主動多送一株葡萄樹苗,小小的,便隨便種在前園的瓜棚下。過了年多,可能因為水土不合,天香木瓜和杞子都在奄奄一息,無花果則有幾株生長得不錯,有幾株則早已烏乎。至於這株葡萄,去年整年都似在與命運搏鬥,時有數塊將枯的小葉掛在枝上,時而落葉盡數。<br />
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今年初春,整頓園中作物,園主本說這株殘苗拔去算了,我說姑且留下再看看吧。如是者,在樹苗周圍一尺下了點羊糞,由他天生天養。到四、五月時份,忽然見枝上長出數串綠色小小的葡萄來,過了幾天,把園主手托葡萄的照片上戴面書,得了二十來個 Like。<br />
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數天前,忽然察覺原來是這是株紅提,不是綠提。又拍下兩串差不多都轉紅了的葡萄,上載面書,兩三天便得了六十多個Like,前所未有。大概,朋友們都覺得,香港能夠長出自家葡萄,是件很不可思議的事情。<br />
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昨晨,發現已有數夥葡萄給雀鳥喙去,便把當中兩串最大最熟的剪了下來,園主幫我照了一張收成照,還催促我上載面書。一個晚上,又獲贈五十來個Like,二十多個留言。<br />
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生命和生活,常因偶然而交織出意外的驚喜。如果那次樹苗賣家不是偶然隨手給我們多一株不值錢的小禮物,我們這個夏天,便不會有幾張逗得朋友們也快樂好一會的照片上載面書;如果沒有這幾張照片上載,便不會因為這點小小的意思,令朋友起碼快樂了一息間。這一息間,可能是從悶熱、鬱結、失望、煩厭.......之間,抽脫了出來。這些朋友,有些很親近,有些很疏離,他們有些很可能很久也沒有笑過,有些要吃安眠藥才能入睡......可是,在面書上,起碼,我們有一刻快樂的交流。<br />
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<br />joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-73703368483810465672012-05-14T23:49:00.003+08:002012-05-16T12:20:45.276+08:00命中注定 vs 人定勝天早前,友人介紹我看司務道教士的<a href="http://www.logos.com.hk/acms/content.asp?site=logos&op=search&type=product&match=exact&field=author&text=%u53F8%u52D9%u9053" target="_blank">《陜西羚蹤》和《荒原上》</a>,兩本小書。在以前,用坐車的時間,很快便可看完,現在,架上老花鏡,看了數頁,便會眼睏,要用過往兩、三倍的時間才能可完。看畢,我更相信,上天要你成就大事,總會在適當的時候,給你足夠的資源,只是,要經過很多盼望和失望的交替。一個夢想,如果是天意,都附著足夠完成這個夢想的資源,金錢、土地、人手,在適當的時候便會出現。一個夢想,如果不是天意,便只會是永恆的夢想。<br />
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昨夜,隨意選個台看電影,其中一個頻道在播<a href="http://www.universalstudiosentertainment.com/the-adjustment-bureau/" target="_blank">The Adjustment Bureau</a>, 剛開場不久,主角是Matt Damon,便繼續看下去。隨著劇情發展,腦裡結合近日讀過司務道的一生,出現命中注下和人定勝天的較量。看到結局是,縱使天命難違,人的意志,原來,一次又一次的不甘心,一次又一次的突圍,終於,還是會使命運改寫的。看戲,總愛看到喜劇收場。<br />
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未來,或許還有很多命中注定,也有很多人定勝天。joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-45940792748093115492012-03-20T19:04:00.001+08:002012-03-20T19:04:40.972+08:00一年之計在於春打從正月初一起便想寫這個題目,太多的約會,太多的承諾,太多事情想知,太多地方想去......結果,雖然blog還是要寫,但blog還是未寫。<br />
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翻開行事曆,過年至今,填得密密麻麻。正經做了的事,包括去了好多遍亞洲協會的導賞員訓練和配合展覽的幾個演講;另外,參與了學校的口述歷史研究項目,和學生們見了幾次面,算是學以致用吧。在正事和正事之間,加插的便是老友聚會、吃喝玩樂和料理大小農務。早前好多天都在下雨,沒有出後園,天一放晴,走進園中,盡是新芽,育了多時的種子,不知那天冒了頭,挺出幼嫩的小葉;還有入冬以來,多棵以為早已枯死的樹苗,枝上忽然爆出點點嫩綠,真的高興老天起死回生的美妙,也慶幸自己從來不減心存僥幸但又不加強求的本事,就容忍它們在那裡待一會,命不該絕的,總會生機再現。<br />
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一年之計在於春,越靠近自然,越明白這道理。joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-3821937574180101692011-12-06T16:43:00.010+08:002011-12-06T17:12:54.917+08:00Magic always happen when nice people are gathered!10月19日順利通過論文答辯後,一直想寫一點東西總結這幾年的全職學生生涯,只是,因為在此之前寫了兩個電郵,跟著事情便不斷發展,加上11月初赴台八天,到了今天,才有一個空閒的早上,到後園清理一下雜草叢生的菜地,施肥灌溉。在新知舊雨的熱鬧中穿梭過後,回到酒歡人散後的清靜,一種人生不過如此的感慨,悠然而起。雖仍有多封電郵待發,也要擱下片刻,好好記錄這豐盛的兩個月。<br />
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兩件美事,第一件,是生平第一次做策展人,在夫君赤手空拳包攬水電裝修工程的小房子,開了一個迷你畫展。<br />
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從何說起,便要借用一下老友馬少萍的筆力。她在展覽場刊中,寫了這樣一章後記:<br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;"><b>『緣起︰由一封電郵開始</b></span></div><div style="color: #666666;"><span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;"> </span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><div style="color: #0b5394;"><span style="color: #0b5394;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">每天都有一個新夢想的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">Joyce Ho</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">在她的博士論文答辯前,於</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">10</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">月</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">8</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">日</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">11</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">時</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">01</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">分發了一個電郵給</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">4</span></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">位朋友。</span></span></div></div><br />
<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Dear all,</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-size: small;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">a new dream come up yesterday when Maggie and I taking our fathers to visit the Fine Art Asia Exhibition.</span></span><br />
<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Joyce with Susan and Loi Chi come back HK around the same time, if you bring 2-3 painting back + Maggie's father, Maggie and I, we'll have around 15 pieces of art work to show. Tentatively, 27 Nov, the last sunday of the month.<br />
I'll announce the event on Facebook and you guys share with your friends, I think this size of circulation is good enough and easy to handle.<br />
If you are interested, pls say yes and send the art work you are going to exhibit before November. I'll do the invitation card and catalogue in e-format. And I bet Kitty love to be the Editor of the catalogue.<br />
Let's make this dream come true!</span></span><br />
<span lang="EN-US" style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Joyce<o:p></o:p></span></span></span><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #0b5394;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">18</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">分鐘後,很愛她那有藝術天份爸爸的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">maggie</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">回覆得簡而有力。</span></span></span></div><div style="color: #6fa8dc;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: small;">YES, I DO.</span></div><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #0b5394;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">1</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">小時後,平日愛潑冷水愛扮</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">cool </span><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">的</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">kitty</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">一反常態。</span></span></span><br />
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-size: small;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc;">VERY VERY GOOD!!</span> </span></span></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-size: small;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc;">Each artist writes something about their works, before I just thinking about </span></span></span><span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-size: small;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc;">創作理</span></span></span><span style="color: black; font-size: small;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc;">念</span></span></span><span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-size: small;"><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc;">but as this time should we make it more personal touch, like just say when u</span> </span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-size: small;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc;">create,what’s inside your mind; when u finish, what u feel. Can be very personal and </span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-size: small;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc;">sensational. That’s what I have in my mind now. Sooooooooooooooo EXCITED!!!</span></span></span><br />
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</span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: #0b5394;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">美麗</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";"> +</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">智慧</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif";">+ </span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">working like a donkey</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">的美國靚太</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";">joyce wu</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體;">依舊爽快。</span></span></span></div><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-size: small;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">Do you have any suggestion which drawing or paintings I should mail it back to hk?</span></span><br />
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</span><span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">遠在阿姆斯特丹而準備來港參與中大祟基聯展的陳耐持,一貫的熱情。</span></div><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-size: small;"><span style="color: #6fa8dc; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">That is great! I love it ! If this idea was born a few weeks earlier, than I can just book my return trip a week later and fly back to Amsterdam from Hong Kong after 27 Nov.! Then I can join this happening. The ticket I bought was a very cheap one, it is not changeable!</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-size: small;"><v:shapetype coordsize="21600,21600" filled="f" id="_x0000_t75" o:preferrelative="t" o:spt="75" path="m@4@5l@4@11@9@11@9@5xe" stroked="f"><span style="color: #6fa8dc;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> <v:stroke joinstyle="miter"> <v:formulas> <v:f eqn="if lineDrawn pixelLineWidth 0"> <v:f eqn="sum @0 1 0"> <v:f eqn="sum 0 0 @1"> <v:f eqn="prod @2 1 2"> <v:f eqn="prod @3 21600 pixelWidth"> <v:f eqn="prod @3 21600 pixelHeight"> <v:f eqn="sum @0 0 1"> <v:f eqn="prod @6 1 2"> <v:f eqn="prod @7 21600 pixelWidth"> <v:f eqn="sum @8 21600 0"> <v:f eqn="prod @7 21600 pixelHeight"> <v:f eqn="sum @10 21600 0"> </v:f></v:f></v:f></v:f></v:f></v:f></v:f></v:f></v:f></v:f></v:f></v:f></v:formulas> <v:path gradientshapeok="t" o:connecttype="rect" o:extrusionok="f"> <o:lock aspectratio="t" v:ext="edit"> </o:lock></v:path></v:stroke></span></span></v:shapetype><v:shape id="_x0000_i1025" style="height: 14pt; visibility: visible; width: 14pt;" type="#_x0000_t75"><span style="color: #6fa8dc;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> <v:imagedata o:href="cid:DA19F0495B6147FC9F33C7A781D7AC2A@LoiChePC" src="file:///C:%5CUsers%5CJoyce%5CAppData%5CLocal%5CTemp%5Cmsohtmlclip1%5C01%5Cclip_image001.png"> </v:imagedata></span></span></v:shape></span><span lang="EN-US" style="color: black; font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: small;"><span style="color: #999999;"> <o:p></o:p></span></span><br />
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<div class="MsoNormal" style="background: white; margin: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span style="color: #0b5394;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">電郵來來往往,問題逐漸浮現,時間殺到埋身,工作會議暗湧處處。有人開始在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: small;">facebook </span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">發難。<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">「人生本來有很多事情是徒勞無功的,幹嗎還要去做?</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: small;">just an idiot?</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">」</span></span><span style="color: #0b5394;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">誰不知另一個</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: small;">idiot </span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">已經默默在發功,訂框、設計</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: small;">invitation card, poster……</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">幾個傻瓜像玩</span><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif"; font-size: small;">SM</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">互相鞭策,鞭鞭到肉…</span></span></div><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;"><span style="color: #0b5394;">突然想起近日大熱的電影《那些年,我們一起追過的女孩》。<span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Calibri","sans-serif";"><o:p></o:p></span></span></span><br />
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<div style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">就是這樣,一個名為《Opening...,,this opening is the opening of an opening 開一個新開始》的畫展出台了,參展畫家跨三代人,來自亞歐美三大洲。還不夠</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">過癮,不夠爽嗎?</span></div><div style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"></span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">畫展開幕當日,除了一班相識廿多載的RTHK姊妹重聚,更吸引村民入來湊熱鬧,其中一個約十歲小孩聽到我說如果他喜歡畫畫,將來也可以把作品放在這裡展出,他即時跑回家把他的畫簿帶過來,這不就是把藝術帶入社區的好開始嗎?</span><br />
</div><div style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;"> </span></div><div style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">第二件美事,早在年初,一向熱心研究二次世界大戰時期,赤柱監獄職員宿舍和聖士提反書院用作囚禁戰俘歷史的Geoffrey Emerson,告訴我今年是Stanley Internment Camp 的70週年,他計劃籌備一個聚會,讓一班當年在那裡生活過的人或他們的親友,可以來一個Reunion。</span></div><div style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">十月初,我寫了一封電郵給</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">已故監獄署署長CJ Norman的女兒Kirsty Norman介紹</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">Geoffrey的研究</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">,因她父親當年也曾在這裡經歷了三年八個月,結果,一封電郵,連結了兩位有心人,Kirsty更決定來港參加這次Reunion。</span></div><div style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;"> </span></div><div style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">因為</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">Reunion其中一個項目是在當年的聚會禮堂,今天的懲教署會所午膳,並在膳後重遊當年禁閉營舊地,亦即今天的職員宿舍一帶。我建議Geoffrey邀請署長參加午餐,因為這總算是一個和監獄歷史有關的歷史性聚會,復有當年署長的後人參與,實在難得。當署長答應出席,我便邀請了幾位相關的在職高層一同出席,就是這樣,幾個電話電郵往還,一桌十二人,座無虛設。</span></div><div style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">活動由11月29日開始,至12月4日結束,當中參與了兩個整天的節目,還有一天趁空檔和Geoffrey及Kirsty吃了一餐午飯,飯後和她到了懲教署博物館走一趟。她是做考古研究的,對保存整理父親的歷史亦份外用心。</span></div><div style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;"><br />
</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">昨日,把隨團的照片上載Facebook,加了一個comment<span style="color: #0b5394;">“</span></span><span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text" style="color: #0b5394; font-size: small;">Geoffrey teached me a lot through this reunion. I'm now more willing to make effort in getting nice people together. Magic always happen when nice people are gathered!</span><span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">”</span></div><div style="color: black;"><br />
<span style="font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">數分鐘後,Geoffrey 答<span style="color: #0b5394;">“</span></span><span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text" style="color: #0b5394; font-size: small;">Thanks, Joyce! It was a lucky day when we first met several years ago.</span><span style="color: #0b5394; font-family: 新細明體; font-size: small;">”</span></div><span style="font-size: small;"></span><span style="font-size: small;">對,當有心人有機會碰上有心人,便是人生中的一天lucky day。</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體;"> </span>joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-69448010516058911112011-10-01T12:37:00.001+08:002011-10-01T22:14:43.268+08:00十八年青春,何價?<span style="font-size: small;">深霄未睡,本想搜尋一些懲教院所的圖片,無意發現報章一個</span><a href="http://news.hkheadline.com/dailynews/content_hk/2010/09/03/121571.asp"><span style="font-size: small;">很鱔的稿</span></a><span style="font-size: small;">,講一對攣生妹妹拿十八年長期服務獎,和這兩位姊妹昔日有數面之緣,看了不無感慨,連結上Facebook,不一日,多位退休和未退休的同事留言大抒己見,看來,這真是一個在民間抑壓了很久的問題,未解決。</span><br />
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下文Copy and Paste 自Facebook,因未徵得留言好友同意轉載,辜隱其名。<br />
<h6 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":1}"><div class="actorDescription actorName" data-ft="{"type":2}"></div><div class="actorDescription actorName" data-ft="{"type":2}"><a data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=545507478" href="http://www.facebook.com/hezhongshi"><span style="color: #3b5998; font-size: small;">Joyce HO</span></a></div><span style="font-size: small;"> <span class="messageBody translationEligibleUserMessage" data-ft="{"type":3}">廿一年前我入行時,十年八年未升職的二級懲教助理,都係一些表現<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>麻麻的。過了廿年,足足十八,攞埋長期優良服務獎,都未有得升,<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>仲要被人用黎出新聞,真的為默默耕耘的同事致敬!我想借呢個故仔<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>,問下我地各位疑似特首,特區政府的團隊是醒過97前定差過97<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>前,點解同樣做好一份工,大部份基層人員做到max左十幾年都無<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>職升?</span></span></h6><div class="mvm uiStreamAttachments clearfix fbMainStreamAttachment" data-ft="{"type":10}"><div class="UIImageBlock clearfix"><a aria-hidden="true" class="external UIImageBlock_Image UIImageBlock_MED_Image" data-ft="{"type":41}" href="http://news.hkheadline.com/dailynews/content_hk/2010/09/03/121571.asp" rel="nofollow" target="_blank" title=""><img alt="" class="img" src="http://external.ak.fbcdn.net/safe_image.php?d=AQDfkebCjv5esl9N&w=90&h=90&url=http%3A%2F%2Fimg.hkheadline.com%2Fheadline%2Fnews%2F100903%2Fwnnp42p01a_mi_199.jpg" /></a><br />
<div class="UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_MED_Content fsm fwn fcg"><div class="uiAttachmentTitle" data-ft="{"type":11}"><strong><a href="http://news.hkheadline.com/dailynews/content_hk/2010/09/03/121571.asp" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"><span style="color: #3b5998;">「懲教雙妹嘜」齊獲獎 工作18載</span></a></strong> </div><div class="mts uiAttachmentDesc translationEligibleUserAttachmentMessage"></div></div></div></div><form action="/ajax/ufi/modify.php" class="live_248597838519203_131325686911214 commentable_item autoexpand_mode" data-live="{"seq":3299948}" method="post" rel="async"><input name="charset_test" type="hidden" value="€,´,€,´,水,Д,Є" /><input autocomplete="off" name="post_form_id" type="hidden" value="66cddb65c03a65e4499f9671b780ed31" /><input autocomplete="off" name="fb_dtsg" type="hidden" value="AQChz2Dj" /><input autocomplete="off" name="feedback_params" type="hidden" value="{"actor":"545507478","target_fbid":"248597838519203","target_profile_id":"545507478","type_id":"17","source":"2","assoc_obj_id":"","source_app_id":"5085647995","extra_story_params":[],"content_timestamp":"1317398113","check_hash":"7d8f8c4c518d8543"}" /></form><div class="commentContent UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_SMALL_Content" data-ft="{"type":33}"><span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text"><span style="background-color: white;">因為香港已死。Madam, 你係少數o既好人...呢個世界, 最緊要識擦, 如果唔係, max 廿年無得升都係咁話...</span></span><br />
<div class="commentActions fsm fwn fcg"><span style="background-color: white;"><abbr class="timestamp livetimestamp" data-date="Fri, 30 Sep 2011 09:00:30 -0700" title="Saturday, 01 October 2011 at 00:00">12 hours ago</abbr> · <span class="comment_like_3296818 fsm fwn fcg" data-ft="{"type":36}"> ·</span></span></div></div><br />
<div class="UIImageBlock clearfix uiUfiActorBlock"></div><div class="commentContent UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_SMALL_Content" data-ft="{"type":33}"><a class="actorName" data-ft="{"type":35}" data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=545507478" href="http://www.facebook.com/hezhongshi"><span style="color: #3b5998;">Joyce HO</span></a> <span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">快而準!果然係資優生^^無錯,擦係唔夠做架,要識擦,<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>擦到D長官嘅意志被人擦左都唔知,結果,鞋童嘅意志=長<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>官嘅意志,咁就大家都玩完。</span><br />
<div class="commentActions fsm fwn fcg"><abbr class="timestamp livetimestamp" data-date="Fri, 30 Sep 2011 09:12:21 -0700" title="Saturday, 01 October 2011 at 00:12">11 hours ago</abbr> · <span class="comment_like_3296879 fsm fwn fcg" data-ft="{"type":36}"> · </span></div></div><br />
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<span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">曾幾何時, 我覺得自己都算係有理想有抱負o既, 唉, 比呢個政府磨滅左...政府工, 越做得就越做死, 越唔做o既越唔駛做 (呢句係我近排o既口頭禪) 比人搵笨出聲o個d叫計較, 搵人笨o個d就繼續風流快活升官發財....都係o個句<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>, 最緊要識擦!!!</span><br />
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<div class="UIImageBlock clearfix uiUfiActorBlock"></div><div class="commentContent UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_SMALL_Content" data-ft="{"type":33}"><span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">是悲情故事!我見有好多好醒的同事,做左廿幾年,就係唔<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>想為左張 out 仔 CR 低聲下氣!<br />
我有次聽見有同事同 DO 講,你唔好玩啦,張 out 仔你留俾想昇的人,我做多五年都退休。我一定同你番足工<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>,不過我有事你就要俾我放!咁就大家都收線!<br />
有好多長官就係用張 out 仔去玩權術!而唔係去俾一 d 值得的同事!<br />
有一次某長官同我講,你張 CR 寫好啦,VG!不過如果你想見 薯仔幫,我同你寫過張 out 仔!<br />
我同阿 sir 講,你如果覺得我 out 就寫 out,唔係因為我想昇、你就寫 out!多謝啦!</span><br />
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<span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">眼見d人為out仔埋沒良心,出賣人,事非當人情,無料<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>扮有料,返工活係一個謊言世界,無人可信既情況,實在恐<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>怖,依幾年見識左好多,依份工唯一既好處係教你唔好信人<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>,信自己吧!灰</span><br />
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<div class="UIImageBlock clearfix uiUfiActorBlock"></div><div class="commentContent UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_SMALL_Content" data-ft="{"type":33}"><span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">兩姐妹都是又醒又乖的職員,還記得她們當然投考時我都有<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>份interview佢地,咁多年都很勤力,但係無法!<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>無得升就係無得升!在女監工作想拿張VG CR 都唔容易啦!何況係OUTSTANDING!難上加難!<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>我做了咁多年都未有過!</span><br />
<div class="commentActions fsm fwn fcg"><abbr class="timestamp livetimestamp" data-date="Fri, 30 Sep 2011 10:58:27 -0700" title="Saturday, 01 October 2011 at 01:58">10 hours ago</abbr> · <span class="comment_like_3297412 fsm fwn fcg" data-ft="{"type":36}"> · <i class="cmt_like_icon img sp_aa9nbs sx_1246f3"></i> </span></div></div><br />
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<div class="UIImageBlock clearfix uiUfiActorBlock"></div><div class="commentContent UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_SMALL_Content" data-ft="{"type":33}"><span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">Madam, 因為呢個係政治遊戲, 並不是有能者居之嘅公平競爭!!!</span><br />
<div class="commentActions fsm fwn fcg"><abbr class="timestamp livetimestamp" data-date="Fri, 30 Sep 2011 12:01:52 -0700" title="Saturday, 01 October 2011 at 03:01">9 hours ago</abbr> · <span class="comment_like_3297663 fsm fwn fcg" data-ft="{"type":36}"></span></div></div><br />
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<div class="UIImageBlock clearfix uiUfiActorBlock"></div><div class="commentContent UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_SMALL_Content" data-ft="{"type":33}"> <span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">我經歷過好易升和好難升的年代!其實我地個部門根本不可<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>以用有能者居之!我們的升級受到社會大環境的控制!要講<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>就要寫成千字以上!等我有時間再詳談!</span><br />
<div class="commentActions fsm fwn fcg"><abbr class="timestamp livetimestamp" data-date="Fri, 30 Sep 2011 16:24:15 -0700" title="Saturday, 01 October 2011 at 07:24">5 hours ago</abbr> · <span class="comment_like_3298605 fsm fwn fcg" data-ft="{"type":36}"></span></div></div><br />
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<div class="UIImageBlock clearfix uiUfiActorBlock"></div><div class="commentContent UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_SMALL_Content" data-ft="{"type":33}"><span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">Madam!唔好話以上各位師兄姊嘅諗法,連我呢個只係<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>做咗九年嘅都無乜寄望同感覺!我只會默默耕耘,努力做到<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>最好同過得自己關就夠,其他嘢唔諗亦未輪到我諗!日日只<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>有做做做!所以你見我放工放假咁多飯局同活動,可能呢啲<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>已經係無形幫我減咗壓同放鬆嘅方法!</span><br />
<div class="commentActions fsm fwn fcg"><abbr class="timestamp livetimestamp" data-date="Fri, 30 Sep 2011 16:25:21 -0700" title="Saturday, 01 October 2011 at 07:25">5 hours ago</abbr> · <span class="comment_like_3298608 fsm fwn fcg" data-ft="{"type":36}"></span></div></div><br />
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<div class="UIImageBlock clearfix uiUfiActorBlock"></div><div class="commentContent UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_SMALL_Content" data-ft="{"type":33}"><span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">我是一個AOII入職,升過AOI,—再升Office<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>r!被人提攜升級試過,提攜下屬升級又試過!當中是有很<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>多因素去影響!</span><br />
<div class="commentActions fsm fwn fcg"><abbr class="timestamp livetimestamp" data-date="Fri, 30 Sep 2011 16:25:32 -0700" title="Saturday, 01 October 2011 at 07:25">5 hours ago</abbr> · <span class="comment_like_3298609 fsm fwn fcg" data-ft="{"type":36}"></span></div></div><br />
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<span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">我想講講,我地唔好默默耕耘,因為你默默耕耘的話,係呢<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>個世上無人會主動認識你,無人會突然睇到你!大家唔知道<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>我講唔講得明!</span><br />
<div class="UIImageBlock clearfix uiUfiActorBlock"></div><div class="commentContent UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_SMALL_Content" data-ft="{"type":33}"><div class="commentActions fsm fwn fcg"><abbr class="timestamp livetimestamp" data-date="Fri, 30 Sep 2011 16:27:51 -0700" title="Saturday, 01 October 2011 at 07:27">5 hours ago</abbr> · <span class="comment_like_3298616 fsm fwn fcg" data-ft="{"type":37}"> · </span></div></div><br />
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</div><div class="UIImageBlock clearfix uiUfiActorBlock"></div><div class="commentContent UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_SMALL_Content" data-ft="{"type":33}"><a class="actorName" data-ft="{"type":35}" data-hovercard="/ajax/hovercard/user.php?id=545507478" href="http://www.facebook.com/hezhongshi"><span style="color: #3b5998;">Joyce HO</span></a> <span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">吳Sir講得好岩,請你繼續講多D,將你的體驗同上面呢<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>班一直好乖好默默耕耘的小朋友分享。以前做政府基層人員<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>,默默耕耘,等到退休有長糧,都算化算,今時今日做正苦<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>工,默默耕耘半世,賠硬。</span><br />
<div class="commentActions fsm fwn fcg"><abbr class="timestamp livetimestamp" data-date="Fri, 30 Sep 2011 17:25:39 -0700" title="Saturday, 01 October 2011 at 08:25">4 hours ago</abbr> · <span class="comment_like_3298827 fsm fwn fcg" data-ft="{"type":36}"> ·</span></div></div><br />
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<span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">因為正在組織我的網誌和準備到台灣讀書,但我都希望講多<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>些少比大家分享,我知道未必有太多朋友會喜歡聽我講!係<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>我退休時,我和好多80後和一些資深又無機會升級的同事<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>都分享過!他們!極之認同我的睇法!剛才我看到湯哥講起<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>寫out仔的事,我個人從來都無咁同的AOI講,我相信<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>,我係部門寫out仔比AOI係最多的一個!我認為每年<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>CR的評分是一份成績表,也是對一位資深的工作人員作出<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>鼓勵,我相信對他個人,對我和對部門都有裨益!我相信好<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>多跟過我的AOI都能引證!</span><br />
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<div class="UIImageBlock clearfix uiUfiActorBlock"></div><div class="commentContent UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_SMALL_Content" data-ft="{"type":33}"><span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">在這裡,我希望一些到達年資或者過了年資都沒有得升的朋<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>友提醒,以我的經驗,你一定要很坦白同你個直屬上級講清<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>楚你的意願,你想博幫板,還是等升AOI,因為有些時間<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>,你的態度會影響寫CR個位上級,尤其資深的同事!我曾<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>經鼓勵過一個25年AOII的同事,給他3年好的CR,<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>28升級,可能太遲,但也應該對他的工作表現作為一個認<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>同!這個是實例,當時很多人都知道,也覺得很出奇!我認<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>為做人要面對的東西,一定要令到其他人知道,除非你明天<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>就退休或者明天就離開這個世界!我希望有機會繼續讀書,<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>我認為做人一定要做到離開這個世界為止,想做就做,想學<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>就學!但記住,一定要讓你身邊的人知道你想怎樣!像我們<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>在工作上就是,現在競爭比我們之前實在差很遠!</span><br />
<div class="commentActions fsm fwn fcg"><abbr class="timestamp livetimestamp" data-date="Fri, 30 Sep 2011 18:11:38 -0700" title="Saturday, 01 October 2011 at 09:11">3 hours ago</abbr> · <span class="comment_like_3299033 fsm fwn fcg" data-ft="{"type":36}"> ·</span></div></div><br />
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<div class="UIImageBlock clearfix uiUfiActorBlock"></div><div class="commentContent UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_SMALL_Content" data-ft="{"type":33}"><span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">湯哥說得十分對,十八年優良服務,換來都是個悲情的故事<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>。同事乖乖默默地陪跑多年,十八載付出的血與汗,有獎章<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>,無獎金,上埋報,其實這是部門的一大諷刺 ! 是須要管理階層去好好思考的議題。伍Sir講得很精粹 ! 十分認同。</span><br />
<div class="commentActions fsm fwn fcg"><abbr class="timestamp livetimestamp" data-date="Fri, 30 Sep 2011 20:14:19 -0700" title="Saturday, 01 October 2011 at 11:14">about an hour ago</abbr> · <span class="comment_like_3299629 fsm fwn fcg" data-ft="{"type":36}"></span></div></div><br />
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<div class="commentContent UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_SMALL_Content" data-ft="{"type":33}"><span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text">唔知邊個獻計做呢個古仔!得出咁多負面回應!<br />
不過我接觸過其它紀律部隊,都差不多有這現像,要十八、<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>九年才昇倒沙展。<br />
都係勤力 d 讀書,昇幫辦還容易一點!</span><br />
<div class="commentActions fsm fwn fcg">35 minutes ago · <span class="comment_like_3299883 fsm fwn fcg" data-ft="{"type":36}"> </span></div></div><br />
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</div><div class="uiUfiComment comment_3299948 ufiItem ufiItem"><span class="commentBody" data-jsid="text"><span>始終係要天時、地利、人和。有幸被派到自己能發揮的崗位</span><wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>,重要遇到有眼珠的上司,才可以不落後於人!</span></div><div class="UIImageBlock clearfix uiUfiActorBlock"></div><div class="commentContent UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_SMALL_Content" data-ft="{"type":33}"><div class="commentActions fsm fwn fcg"><abbr class="timestamp livetimestamp" data-date="Sat, 01 Oct 2011 01:03:32 -0700" title="Saturday, 01 October 2011 at 16:03">6 hours ago</abbr> ·</div></div><br />
<div class="UIImageBlock clearfix uiUfiActorBlock"></div><div class="commentContent UIImageBlock_Content UIImageBlock_SMALL_Content" data-ft="{"type":33}"><div class="commentActions fsm fwn fcg"><span class="comment_like_3300888 fsm fwn fcg" data-ft="{"type":36}"> ·</span></div></div>joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-79480242710640943932011-08-25T01:29:00.005+08:002011-08-25T11:28:34.216+08:00Blog ,還是要寫的昨午把論文交到研究院教務處,跟著便是等候答辯,一切順利的話,也要多待一兩個月才可告一段落。這段時間,要換另一種心情看書,換另一種方式想問題。看《讀歷史,我可以學會甚麼?》;想:「寫歷史,我是為了甚麼?」<br />
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停了寫Blog近半載,這半年,過得實在,世事也多。不寫,總有過了便追不回的可惜。無奈,也只能可惜。<br />
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上月初,忽然跑來了小貓來喜,夫妻二人在家裡從此多了個說話的對象。園裡種瓜得瓜,種豆得豆,還有番薯苗、甜椒、秋葵和木瓜等,雖不高產,總算勉勉強強都有點收成。半農半讀,身心愉快。<br />
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至於世間事,卻是越來越不能令人愉快。不寫在Blog上,也要寫在Facebook上。<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: black;">前兩天在Facebook寫了這個 Note:</span><br />
<div class="mvm plm uiStreamAttachments clearfix uiAttachmentNoMedia" data-ft="{"type":10}"><div><div class="fsm fwn fcg"><div class="uiAttachmentTitle" data-ft="{"type":11}"><strong><a href="http://www.facebook.com/notes/joyce-ho/%E6%B8%AF%E5%A4%A7%E5%A5%BD%E5%A4%9A%E6%A4%85%E6%9E%B6/10150765280490103"><span style="background-color: white; color: #3d85c6;">港大好多椅架!</span></a></strong><span style="background-color: white; color: #3d85c6;"> </span></div><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #3d85c6;">老友係港大人,佢話:「見到李克強咁大模斯樣坐係張校監椅上,唔<wbr></wbr><span class="word_break"></span>慶就假。」 </span></span><br />
<div class="mts uiAttachmentDesc"><span style="background-color: white; color: #3d85c6;">今早和老公討論這問題,佢問:「點解唔攞第二張椅俾佢坐?」 </span></div><div class="mts uiAttachmentDesc"><span style="background-color: white; color: #3d85c6;">又係喎。港大好多椅架!</span></div><div class="mts uiAttachmentDesc"></div><div class="mts uiAttachmentDesc">還有一句我沒有寫在Facebook上。我說,他可能做不完一屆的校長,但會是一世的校長。遙寄珍重珍重這是我新亞精神的祝福給徐校長,但願我的直覺比歷史真實。</div><div class="mts uiAttachmentDesc"></div><div class="mts uiAttachmentDesc">前天在Now中國電影台,看了成成烽火之青春行動,故事是說三十年代初的太原<a href="http://baike.baidu.com/view/20930.htm">成成中學</a>。從來,優秀的校長、老師和學生,都是走在革命烽火的最前端。百年老校,百年樹人。<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nvwczgYQ04c">同學們,同學們,快拿出力量,負擔起天下的興忙</a>。</div><div class="mts uiAttachmentDesc"></div><div class="mts uiAttachmentDesc">很多國家都病了,大家保重身體。</div><div class="mts uiAttachmentDesc"></div><div class="mts uiAttachmentDesc">Blog,我還是要寫的,有空再來。</div></div></div></div><form action="/ajax/ufi/modify.php" class="live_10150765280490103_131325686911214 commentable_item autoexpand_mode" data-live="{"seq":24519780}" method="post" rel="async"><input name="charset_test" type="hidden" value="€,´,€,´,水,Д,Є" /><input autocomplete="off" name="post_form_id" type="hidden" value="ac4da18062f2ecb1d95cdf7194653e0b" /><input autocomplete="off" name="fb_dtsg" type="hidden" value="AQDz1kYP" /><input autocomplete="off" name="feedback_params" type="hidden" value="{"actor":"545507478","target_fbid":"10150765280490103","target_profile_id":"545507478","type_id":"14","source":"0","assoc_obj_id":"","source_app_id":"2347471856","extra_story_params":[],"content_timestamp":"1313907966","check_hash":"f9226f83d5110087"}" /></form><br />
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上星期六晚上,到馬屎埔看《<a href="http://www.newwe.info/tw/">全新的我們</a>》,足足兩個小時的放映,本來疲乏的身心,越看越有勁。歸家路上,腦裡越多問題,越多夢想,越多主意。回家後,電台剛巧播馬屎埔<a href="http://programme.rthk.org.hk/channel/radio/programme.php?name=radio1/Box_And_The_City&d=2011-03-12&p=4903&e=134070&m=episode">青年農夫俊彥的訪問</a>,想不到平日在田裡見他一身粗獷,在咪前講對務農理想的追求,竟是那般柔情。<br />
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過了一夜,晨早起來,便又到馬屎埔上這一期的最後一課耕作班,田間實習完畢,最後一小時,大家分享對耕作的看法,我把話題一帶,便帶到我想了一夜的主意來。<br />
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我說,人家動之以利收了整個馬屎埔的七成地,我們可不可以動之以情,請他把七成中的一成原價賣回給有心畢生致力永續農業的一群呢?我又說,我們可以給四叔寫這封動之以情的公開信,貼到馬屎埔每塊給他收購了的土地上,希望他明白,他的王國,幾乎甚麼都擁有了,就是少了如馬屎埔那些留下來的耕作人家,幾十年來,沒有他求,就是想種一些好吃的菜疏,送到市場賣,然後一家大小和和氣氣安安樂樂吃頓飯。<br />
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如果豪宅王國可以和永續社區和諧共存,互補不足,不失為一個為地產覇權去污的好方法。<br />
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好,我現在就寫這封信給四叔。joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-19344934353393881382011-02-20T01:52:00.003+08:002011-02-21T09:59:31.204+08:00此心光明,亦復可言自從小友們各自闖蕩江湖後,久不久會忽然收到她們來電或電郵,說些令人氣憤的事,問問我如何是好,雖然多會都替她們的冤屈不值,但總覺事情不過是一時之痛,不失為一些小磨練。正如當年我在課堂上選了一段《留侯論》:「<span class="subpage" style="color: black;">古之所謂豪傑之士,必有過人之節,人情有所不能忍者。匹夫見辱,拔劍而起,挺身而鬥,此不足為勇也。天下大勇者,卒然臨之而不驚,無故加之而不怒。此其所挾持者甚大,而其志甚遠也</span>」,用來安慰她們給我無端辱罵,效果如果,這些年來,也略見一二。。<br />
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前一陣子,收到小友電郵,告訴我一段工作上的令人沮喪的事,我還是照慣常帶些江湖口吻,勸她沉住氣,要成大事,必先忍小事,儲心積慮待時機。事情擾擾攘攘,終算勝了一場小仗,我雖沒有花過甚麼力氣,也沾到勝利的興味,竊以為不枉為人師了。<br />
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我回應她報捷的消息時,又再老江湖了一番,說:「呢個故事帶出的道理就是:時間+時機,便是最好的證明。如果只是時間過去,沒有合適的時機出現,個人的努力和對真理的追求,就只有天知地知自己知。我中學時讀過王陽明臨終前遺言:此心光明,亦復可言。在我長大後,做人處事的每遇閒言閒語,便會以這八個字開解自己,有時也算管用,當然太冤屈時,也要另尋出路。」<br />
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此心光明,亦復可言,這八個字,治療一般冤屈都很管用,當然太冤屈時,便要試試更強效的處方了,怎樣才算太冤屈,那便看看自家的修維了,還有甚麼更強效的處方,便要看看時間與時機。時間是治標,有機緣遇上高人,得個奇方,又或者自己霎時頓悟出個偏來,便藥到病除,治標又治本。joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-78284810457412589832011-02-16T21:47:00.008+08:002011-02-17T13:53:46.085+08:00人世間真係有愛情!<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-6iojx_zYEXI/TVyRp2G020I/AAAAAAAAAbc/WvByBUiwk1I/s1600/IMG_8988.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"></a><br />
自搬進郊區,多得四方親友不嫌路遠,入伙至今,不足半年,新知舊雨,或相約到訪,或應邀相聚,朋友會面比住在市區時還要多。有時三五知己,亦茶亦酒,亦嘗三四十人,到會自助,酒不微,皆因每每賓客自攜酒水,喝之不盡,菜也不薄,皆因常有自家有機菜加料,逗得大家多高興。<br />
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年初興起,約好三對見證我們由相愛到成婚的愛侶來寒舍燭光晚餐,同渡情人節。<br />
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是日,珍妮花下午三時多便到來開工預備她的拿手咖哩雞,黃昏時份,大家到齊,來個happy hour。我利用一個小時多一點的歡樂時光,完成了餐湯、頭盆和主菜。 <br />
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是晚菜單如下:<br />
紅菜頭番茄蘋果湯<br />
牛油蒜蓉青口<br />
香草焗南瓜<br />
哀喬斯焗釀豬脾<br />
珍妮花咖哩雞<br />
時菜/飯/薄餅<br />
朱古力果子麵包<br />
咖啡/羅漢果薑茶<br />
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紅菜頭和香草是自家種,麵包是自家烘。菜式由淡入濃,份量剛好。相識十多年,第一次為大家做餐,大家自然對盧太的廚藝不會有很大的期望,所以果然有意外驚喜。<br />
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在昏黃吊燈和幾杯檯頭小燭光下,一室充滿鬧鬧哄哄和情意綿綿,自然少不了拍照留念,合照完畢,又來一對對親吻照,還要照照是夜美肴。<br />
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餐後天南地北,說到時興的北姑牌,幾個男生雀躍要試,入偏廳開檯去了。四個女生的women talk,不知不覺變成看看我家老爺退休後有多大改變的小比併。真是各有千秋,打個和算了,賽後總結是不正常的性情一定不能讓它變成習以為常,男女雙方皆是,小孩子小時偷針大時偷金,老夫老妻也是一樣,婚姻幸福,貴乎包容,但不稱心處,也要找機會說說,否則由量變到質變,炒起大鑊,真的很金。<br />
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本來一個鐘的麻雀計時賽,再加時半個鐘,晚上十一時半,親送三對愛侶驅車回府,跟著便把是夜照片上載Facebook,加上Caption:同埋老友一齊食情人節燭光晚餐仲浪漫。不到兩日,收到二、三十個Like和Comment,尤其喜歡舊日上司在盧先生給盧太太送贈愛吻的一幀上,加了「人世間真係有愛情!」的Comment。<br />
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對,人世間真係有愛情,亦有友情。這個情人節,沒有粉紅玫瑰,沒有心形牛扒,郤很溫馨,很浪漫。 <br />
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大家都是公公平平一無所有的來到這土地上的人,不斷長大便會不斷面對大大小小無數的公平或不公平資源分配,由家庭到學校到社會,總會因資源分配問題,造成有或更有,造成無或更無,幸或不幸。這不是書裡討論的問題,書裡說的,是實實在在的恐怖,恐怖在很多不合理的不公平事,原來不知何時已成為一般人慣常接受的事。就如書中不只一次提到在街市賣菜十元八塊如果呃秤,會被撿控,但大模大樣賣發水樓,是願者上釣。試問有幾多人可以張張就就買間六、七成實用面積的屋,但到街市買兩三斤菜給人家秤先了幾兩便大嚷被騙。 <br />
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《九評地產黨》諸作者中,有數位都是中大人,有些更是我當年剛進大學時仰慕過的大師兄們,買這本書,本就有情意結,看畢放下,這個結更深,原來,當年我的眼力真不錯啊!<br />
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2008年3月匆匆出版了第一版,未幾,書商告之發行商說銷情不錯,追印第二版,當中不知是誤會或是彼此欠缺默契,結果,加印的幾乎沒有買出過,第一版倒是所餘無幾,當時如果不加印,我現在手上便無書可再送贈各方好友了,那也是為難。反正,出版過程中,花了心血和金錢,換來對香港自資出版市場的親身體驗,再加此刻大量存貨在手,也算是打個和。<br />
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唯一失望的是,當初把書送給學堂同事,不論職級,不論熟與不熟,每人一本。當年我任職的大寶號,入職課程有香港監獄歷史一節,本來以為大家好歹也會給推荃一下,怎料這個策略全不湊效。或許說不定遲早有天,隨便一位長官大人隨便問起學堂圖書館有沒有《風雲背後-香港監獄私人檔案》這本書,那些教官們才急急忙忙去找啊找。我答你,是有的,找不到不要緊,反正我有大量存貨。從來,即時威力都是由上而下,由下而上的群眾力量,是不驚不覺的,所以,逢有舊日同事問起我書何處可買,我都樂意送贈,反正我有大量存貨。<br />
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這書,本就是寫給有心人看的,一是有心豐富監房歷史的人,一是有心以懲教工作為終身事業的人。<br />
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問:怎麼一時又說監房,一時又說懲教?<br />
答:答案可以在《風雲背後-香港監獄私人檔案》找到。joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-35829172524174982242010-12-24T13:56:00.001+08:002010-12-24T13:57:18.473+08:00聖誕快樂,松柏長青!自從動工建造我們的後花園,每有機會出城,回程都愛在旺角東站坐港鐵回家,皆因可以順路到花墟逛逛,往常都是光看和問多,間中運吉之餘,也會花十元廿塊買點抵買的農作物,如香草、瓜果種子之類,很少買純觀賞植物,皆因不合乎這個儉約太太的消費模式,例外的是,上月有次在花墟花了過百塊錢,買了由荷蘭空運到港的迷你型松柏各一。一來,愛其松柏長青,兩株小樹大小高矮相近,不到一呎高,放在大門前很可愛;二來,聖誕佳節,雖然奉行簡約,不花費物料佈置,兩株小植物,倒可算作例外;三來,百多元買兩件泊來貨,也滿足了一介村婦的崇洋心理。<br />
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到了前兩天,早上天陰微寒,時近中午,卻陽光普照,看著一松一柏,樹影也透出生氣來。想不如夫妻二人,一人穿紅,一人穿綠,一人捧松,一人捧柏,來個聖誕祝賀,松柏長青。即時行動,架起腳架,調好自拍制,隨機擺了幾個姿勢,挑了其中一幅兩人都自然又寬容的,今年的聖誕咭便是這樣子了。<br />
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祝大家聖誕快樂,松柏長青!joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-62209270344820424562010-12-21T00:16:00.002+08:002010-12-24T14:00:44.767+08:00心滿意足的一年<span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif; font-size: small;">又差不多到了年終盤點的時候了。我的十萬字,終於也到了七七八八的階段,但餘下這二三萬字郤是成敗關鍵,新年願望,自是快快把論文寫畢,完了這個博士夢,開始造新的夢。</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif; font-size: small;">2010年,是心滿意足的一年,文章寫不完,有點點美中不足,但難得其他諸事順心,感恩節和老友一起感恩;然後又和一班好久沒見的小友痛痛快快的吃了一頓;最冷的兩天,發覺這間舊泥磚屋原來很比室外溫暖得多;聖誕前,收到一位小友的電郵,討論工作上看不過眼的地方,又給我的盤點有個加料機會,回覆電郵:</span><br />
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<div style="color: #999999;"><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif; font-size: small;">......我<span style="font-family: inherit;">可以</span>告訴你,和你們相處的日子,我就很希望你們明白,這份工作要認真幹,幹得問心無愧,是難,但還是一個正直的人可以做到的,但要</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif; font-size: small;">幹得上上下下都覺得你幹得漂漂亮亮,你自己又時時可以逍遙自在,那便是難度極高的處世藝術......</span></div><span style="font-size: small;"><br />
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<span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif; font-size: small;">這種</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif; font-size: small;">難度極高的處世藝術,不是人人愛欣賞,更不是</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif; font-size: small;">人人懂欣賞。當年看不過眼的人,今天還是看不上眼。本應</span><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: small;">毋意,毋必,毋固,毋我</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif; font-size: small;">,但我郤更愛相信,藝術品味,最絕對主觀的。</span><span style="font-family: 新細明體,serif; font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"> </span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-size: 12pt;"></span></span>joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-58685115776196382472010-11-05T12:51:00.002+08:002010-11-25T19:35:22.389+08:00莫記此中得失, 不記恨愛相纏, 只記共你當年, 曾經相識過前天,夫婦倆駕車回家,收音機在播新聞,講完發水樓,又講最低工資,我隨口說:「為甚麼他們要賺這麼多錢呢?」夫即接著說:「那你為甚麼要讀這麼多書呢?」想不到會給他這樣一問,我一時情急,不想口窒,倒不如作大一點,答:「為了社會公義。」他跟著說了一大翻自由經濟的理論,然後結論是,賺錢是為了股東的利益。<br />
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社會公義和股東利益,在自由經濟的社會,從何相遇呢?<br />
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昨夜半夜醒來,一時睡不著,打開剛從書堆找出來的黃霑那篇博士論文,一看便看了幾十頁,有點睡意,翻到論文結尾,最後一段,霑叔這樣寫:<br />
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</div><div style="color: #8e7cc3;">本文作者執筆的時候,時常翻聽這數十年的港產音樂聲音,感覺有時如在昨日,有時卻也恍如隔世。也許,能在這幾十年,親逢其會,作為聽眾,作為作者,作為研究人,投入其中,已算有幸。正像羅文1978年唱的《強人》結句一樣﹕</div><div style="color: #8e7cc3;"><br />
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</div>霑叔,佩服佩服。這一段,解答了我們為甚麼要唸一個博士學位。joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-69885224265864813552010-10-11T18:05:00.014+08:002010-10-12T09:02:28.939+08:00擴而充之,便若火之始然、泉之始達<span lang="ZH-HK" style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-HK; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">定功兩三星期,才寫了七千字。一天一千字是理想,一天二千字是夢想。</span><br />
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當我寫完四千字給老友吉蒂指正,不一天,收到三百多字評語回贈,登時振奮起來;昨夜把七千字打印好給夫君過目,除了給他圈了幾個別字,也來個鼓勵鼓勵。今天,大可休息一天,獎勵自己了。<br />
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不寫論文,卻又諸事八掛,走去理會別人家孩子的事。<br />
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一連兩夜,寫了幾封信分別給幾個80後90後的小友,有些回得很快,有些音訊全無,本想,算了吧,雖是親友間的關愛,小孩子受不了,又何必自討沒趣呢?但想起,孟子曰<span style="color: #666666;">:「</span><span style="color: #8e7cc3;">惻隱之心,仁之端也;羞惡之心,義之端也;辭讓之心,禮之端也;是非之心,智之端也。人之有是四端也,猶其有四體也。有是四端而自謂不能者,自賊者也;謂其君不能者,賊其君者也。凡有四端於我者,知皆擴而充之矣,若火之始然、泉之始達。茍能充之,足以保四海;茍不充之,不足以事父母。」</span><br />
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很多平常人覺得多此一舉的事,若能抱著惻隱、羞惡、辭讓、是非之心,擴而充之,便若火之始然、泉之始達,這也算是和流行文化來個默默的抗爭吧。<br />
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我的論文中,引用了一位女前輩的口述:<br />
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<span style="color: #666666;"><span lang="ZH-HK" style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-HK; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">『<span style="color: #8e7cc3;">那時我的確很嚴厲,她們做得不好的時時候,我會兇惡得要緊,但我又常常和她們一起打籃球,讓空閒的職員和他們一起打,這是學男監那邊的</span></span></span><span style="color: #8e7cc3;"><span lang="EN-US" style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-font-family: 新細明體; mso-fareast-language: ZH-HK; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt;">……</span><span lang="ZH-HK" style="font-family: 新細明體; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA; mso-fareast-language: ZH-HK; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman";">那些小女孩是不是比呆在那裡開心得多呢?但有條件的,就是要她們聽話,一定要守規矩,你給她們越多的額外福利,到她們不聽話被罰,被收回這些福利的時候,是不是很大的損失呢?讓她們打球,一來發洩了她們的精力,二來她們生活開心便大家都好了,職員也開心。』</span></span><br />
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我想,若我有很多錢的時候,一定要開一間機鋪,免費任打,條件就是進來的要守規矩有禮貌,沒有禮貌的便要站著乖乖給我訓話,大人細路無任歡迎,我說這是慈善事業,夫君說這是黐線事業。<br />
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至於教而不善的,只得再想辦法啟發他的惻隱、羞惡、辭讓、是非之心吧,在那個年代,就只有一種辦法,簡單、直接、功效快。<br />
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給孩子們的信,其中一封是這樣的:<br />
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<span style="color: #8e7cc3;">你媽媽常常擔心你們掛著打機,荒廢學業。我想,你們已到了懂得為自己選擇方向的年紀,當你們打機的時候,想想媽媽在做甚麼,在收拾客人吃完的碗碟?在給上司指指點點?在盼望你們發奮上進?</span><br />
<span style="color: #8e7cc3;">你們這幾年做自己喜歡的,舒服的,結果,可能將來有幾十年要做自己不喜歡的。路是你們自己選擇的,我走過自己的路,也看過很多成功的人和失敗的人如何選擇他們的路。絕大部份,關鍵都在年少的時候。</span><br />
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結果,音訊全無,我把全文轉傳給小表弟,加了幾句:<br />
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<span style="color: #8e7cc3;">這是我剛給人家姪兒寫的message, 他們就像你讀赤航時那個年紀。</span><br />
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<span style="color: #8e7cc3;">我寫的時候就想起你,覺得那段時候對你太兇嗎?關心的方法對嗎?總算是親人,總希望你們過快樂的日子。但我說這些有用嗎?這便要請教你們了。</span><br />
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民運後生的小表弟出奇的快回覆:<br />
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<span style="color: #f6b26b;">呢啲無得講 好睇本質 逼都無用 Don't be too harsh to them they dont wanna take this stress.</span><br />
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遼遼數句,也有紋有路。廿一歲,中三都不肯唸完,教你不要給小朋友逼得太緊,他們受不了這壓力。有時一篇萬字討論青少年問題的文章,所得的結論也是差不多。<br />
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又有一個父母是50後的80後朋友,在Facebook上寫放洋歸來後,家人不諒解他追求的理想,彼此鬧疆了。<br />
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我先在Facebook寫了一個message,寫了一半便刪了,過了一天,還是忍不住,寫了,傳送了,大至是這樣:<br />
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<span style="color: #8e7cc3;">和家人和諧相處比讀PhD要更大的能耐,不能算付出了幾多,而是還願意付出幾多。</span><br />
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<span style="color: #8e7cc3;">我也認識親友家裡和你的情況相若:都是有放洋唸名牌大學、很上進、很自信的80後孩子,但現在,大家很難理解對方的世界,這不要緊,問題在於孩子沒有興趣讓父母認識他們的世界,他們也沒有興趣認識父母的世界。這是悲哀的。wish this is not your case.<br />
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有時,經年不見的朋友,相互間幾句文字往來,雙方都感到友情是存在且溫暖的。 <br />
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寫完了這麼多,忽然想起冰心,她寫寄小讀者的時候,或許也我—樣,有這種擴而充之,便若火之始然、泉之始達的盼望,不同的是,我郤多了一點又何必一廂情願的爭扎。joyce hohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07240726020871899392noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7306420.post-12778012070957330672010-10-10T12:05:00.001+08:002010-10-10T12:06:25.478+08:00雙十喜見瓜苗守拙歸園田剛好一個月,整頓日常起居,我便開始繼續筆耕那十萬字,吾夫則主理開荒南野際一事。<br />
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每日的果疏草木,能吃下肚的都吃下,不能吃的瓜皮果梢便拿去堆肥,瓜仁果核則洗淨晒乾,隨意撒在泥裡,待有緣的自然會長出來。未幾,泥裡長出長長短短大大小小的幼苗,一來沒有記性,二來新手上路,一時間,如何分辨何者為何?<br />
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吾夫對我這種求其是旦的栽種態度甚不為然,為順其意,只好在我的耕植觀念中減去一點道家的元素,增多兩分務實。上星期把晒乾的苦瓜子均勻地鋪在花盤上,薄薄再蓋上一層泥土,每天澆水,一星期過了,花盤原封不動,我想,有意栽花,花總不發,算了。<br />
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昨晨下雨,沒有澆水,今天出花園,一看,十餘棵新苗,多漂亮,多神氣,有一棵還頂著瓜仁在頂,大自然,真的多其妙!<br />
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